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Do you get nervous when the person your dating starts saying things like, "I Miss You" "I Cant Stop Thinking About You" or "Lets be Exclusive”?
Do you find yourself always running for the heels every time someone says the words, "I Love You”?
If this sounds like you, or someone you know You Or that other person may be suffering from....

COMMITMENT PHOBIA!

Commitment Phobia is very common. In fact most people have it and don’t even realize it because it’s embedded in their subconscious.
Let’s face it, everyone is scared of being hurt by love and that’s ok because fear is a part of life, but if this fear is stopping you from experiencing the great things that love has to offer than you may want to do a bit of self reflection. Fear is an emotion that usually comes from past experiences. If you have witnessed a string of negative relationships from your family or friends for example you could unconsciously be running from love because you don’t want to endure the same heart breaking end results.

You could also build Commitment Phobia from opening up to someone in the past, and becoming deeply wounded or betrayed because of it, but just because you are afraid of something doesn’t mean you can’t overcome it. Love has many more positives than negatives. Think back to the beginning of your relationships, and not the end. Remember when you couldn’t wait to see that person after a long day of work... Just the thought of their face or the sound of their voice would make you feel so overwhelmed with joy and happiness. That is the image you should hold in your mind when you think of the word LOVE, because love is about joy and happiness not pain and heartbreak.

As in all situations you have to take the good with the bad, and you should always evaluate your past relationships so you can learn from them and grow, but you should never dwell on the past or become so obsessed with it that it holds you back from your future! Commitment Phobia may be a part of life, but it does NOT have to be a Permanent Life Threatening disease without a Cure.
Real Love Can Heal a Broken Heart! So think happy thoughts, and you will find the one who makes you feel happiness for eternity!

COMMITMENT PHOBIA! (MIZZBLAZE)

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Fellas: Do you have a feeling your woman is cheating on you? Most of the time there are blogs, and advice columns out there for women, but what about the men? Today I want to focus on helping out all the fellas.... I feel its time for the men to have some feedback this time around! The world would like us to believe that all men are dogs, but I personally dont agree. There are men out there that are sensitive, compassionate, and loving. Men can get hurt in a relationship just as much as a woman can. Lets look at some signs of a cheating....WOMAN!


1. A sudden loss of interest- She used to enjoy going out in public with you and your friends, but now all of a sudden she just wants to stay in the house. Why? Is there something she wants to hide?

2. Change in physical appearance- Your lady used to dress average on a daily basis, but now shes wearing new dresses, new perfume, and all of a sudden her hair, and make-up are flawless! Why the sudden change? She says she just wants to start looking better for you? Hmmm yeah ok!

3. Strange phone calls- Is your girl starting to get phone calls late at night? Or all of a sudden her phone is on vibrate, and then when she goes to answer it she leaves the room or goes outside to answer the call. *side eye* Why? Whats going on? Could it be her "Boyfriend No. 2"

4. Missed Calls- Every time you go to call her she is suddenly unavailable, and when she calls you back she always has some lame excuse like, "My phone had bad reception so I didn't get the call" or "I forgot my phone over my girlfriends house" Hmmm yeah ok! *side eye*

5. Secrecy- Does it seem like all of a sudden your girlfriend got a new job working for the F.B.I? When you ask her questions about her day, or what she has planned for the weekend she starts giving you short strange answers. Woman are generally smooth in covering their tracks when it comes to cheating, but if you know your woman well enough you can pick up on her mood changes... you just need to pay attention.

6. Sexual Appetite- Does your girlfriend seem to have a loss of sexual energy? She used to want to have sex all the time, but now she could care less? OR She has the same sexual appetite, but now she is trying new an extra freaky tricks in the bedroom that she has never tried before? Hmm.. Could her new man be teaching her something that your not?

7. Spending more time with her girlfriends- Is your partner going over her girlfriends house a lot more all of a sudden? Or she has she met some new friends, that she wants to spend her time with? Could it really be a guy? Hmm (Also be aware of the Cover Girl) This is a girlfriend who always seems to come to your partners side to justify her sudden change in Social Networking! *side eye*

8. Increase in Arguments- Is she arguing with you more than usual, and then storming out the house? Are the arguments about small meaningless things, that usually didn't bother her before? Could it be an excuse to leave and spend some more time with her boo? Hmm Watch out!

9. Working Late- Is your girlfriend telling you she needs to spend more time at the office? All of a sudden she has projects that require her to stay extra long hours, and maybe even spend the night at a hotel or girlfriends house? Hmm yeah ok!

10. Guilty Conscious- Sudden gifts come out of no where, and for no particular reason. Candle light dinners, or trips out to eat just because. Sometimes she could just want to be nice, but sometimes it could be signs of a guilty conscious!

---Although these signs can go either way for a man or a woman, I wanted to take sometime to focus on the fellas since they always get neglected!---- XoXo Written by, MizzBlaze aka LuvOnBlast http://www.luvonblast.com/

IS YOUR WOMAN CHEATING? (MIZZBLAZE)

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Someone sent me this message in an email, and I thought it was very interesting. What do you think?? Agree or Disagree??







ADVICE FROM A MAN....
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
5 . Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then, Heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. (Tell it like it is!)
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.<--Tell da truth!
19. Never let a man define who you are.
20. Never borrow someone else's man.
21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
23 . All men are NOT dogs.
24. You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two way street.
25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary.
27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
29. Never move into his mother's house.
30. Never co-sign for a man.
--Anonymous ---

ADVICE FROM A MAN... (MIZZBLAZE)

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It’s not always easy being home alone, especially if you just got out of a long term relationship. Adjusting your life style is a gradual process. You go from spending quality time with your partner on a regular basis to being alone on a Friday night. This transition is not always easy, and it can be a shock to your system, but it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Take this time alone as a chance to grow and do some Self Reflection. Look back on the mistakes, you made with your last partner, and think of something’s you can work on so you can be a better person the next time around. Before getting into anything new you should always go through the healing process, and fully move past your most recent break-up. During this period you may find yourself wanting to call up an ex boyfriends/girlfriends to fill the void, but instead try to do something’s to make yourself happy and fulfilled- “Alone”. You don’t always need to have someone around to have a good time. Take up a new hobby or interest that you can enjoy. Such as, writing, dancing, artwork, music, etc. Remember: You must first be happy with yourself, and have self love before you can give love to another. XoXo Written by, MizzBlaze aka LuvOnBlast http://www.luvonblast.com/

SUDDENLY SINGLE!

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Sometimes in a relationship it’s hard to get through the ruff times. It’s so much easier to give up than to stay and fight! In a perfect world you would like to think that "Love would be enough" but sometimes in certain situations its not. If you have tried everything you could to make your relationship work, I.E. Couples Counseling, Communication Strategies, and it still seems things aren’t changing for the better then maybe its best to move on. Many times people stay in situations that aren’t healthy for them because of various reasons such as, their children, joint property, business investments, but in the end you have to do what’s best for you. If you truly love the one your with, but your no longer "in love" with them don’t force it! Love should be a natural act not a forced one. To have a healthy relationship both parties must be willing to give it 110%! If you need to let go don’t be afraid....Sometimes having love for someone isn’t enough. You also need to have the tools to make the relationship work, and the commitment to see it through! XoXo Written by, MizzBlaze aka LuvOnBlast http://www.luvonblast.com/

IS LUV ALWAYS ENOUGH?

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 So you decided to give it another shot with your ex? Your somewhat apprehensive, but the love is still there so you said what the heck, Ill try it again! So now what? First we have to evaluate why you broke up in the first place. If it was over infedelity/cheating then this short blog may not be enough, but if you both broke up because of communication issues, insecurity, or something else along those lines then read on....





 
*Communication is KEY in every relationship, and most of the time a lack in communication is the cause of most fights, and arguments. When you lack the ability to talk openly and freely with your partner it will cause a great deal of stress, and misunderstandings. Most people find it easier to go to a friend or family member about a problem with their mate, but why not go directly to the source? Have you ever heard the saying, "Don’t Ask My Neighbor”? If you feel unsure about what to say you need to build a stronger friendship with your partner. The person your with should not only be your lover, but also your best friend. This makes it easier for you to talk to them about situations that are bothering you. If you can’t talk to your partner about problems in your relationship then you have to ask yourself.... Why am I in a relationship with this person?

*If your partner has Insecurity issues it can make the relationship intolerable at times. You can’t go out with your friends or co-workers because your partner is constantly thinking that you’re creeping around on them, or looking for someone new. If your partner has low-self esteem because of weight gain, past history of a cheating partner, or some other reason you have to be understanding of this if you want to be with them. Only time, love, and patience can heal the wounds of insecurity. If your partner has insecurity issues because of a cheating partner from their past, you have to understand that in order for them to fully trust you they must first move on from their pain, and that can take years depending on the person, and situation. If your partner is still in the healing process your second time around, you have to understand and accept this going back into the relationship. Obviously you love them if you are willing to be with them again even though you are aware of this issue. So be ready to work on earning their trust, but beware this is not always an easy task. If your partner is insecure because of weight gain, or a physical change in their body or features, its important that you reassure them on a regular basis how beautiful/handsome you think they are, and assist in building their confidence by going to the gym with them or using other tools to assist in resurrecting their confidence. Do special things occasionally to show them how much you appreciate and love them. Whether it’s a special candle light dinner, hot oil massage, or stroll in the park always take time to show the luv you have for your mate.

THE SECOND TIME AROUND

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