Someone sent me this message in an email, and I thought it was very interesting. What do you think?? Agree or Disagree??







ADVICE FROM A MAN....
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
5 . Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then, Heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. (Tell it like it is!)
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.<--Tell da truth!
19. Never let a man define who you are.
20. Never borrow someone else's man.
21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
23 . All men are NOT dogs.
24. You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two way street.
25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary.
27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
29. Never move into his mother's house.
30. Never co-sign for a man.
--Anonymous ---

Advice Men

ADVICE FROM A MAN... (MIZZBLAZE)

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It’s not always easy being home alone, especially if you just got out of a long term relationship. Adjusting your life style is a gradual process. You go from spending quality time with your partner on a regular basis to being alone on a Friday night. This transition is not always easy, and it can be a shock to your system, but it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Take this time alone as a chance to grow and do some Self Reflection. Look back on the mistakes, you made with your last partner, and think of something’s you can work on so you can be a better person the next time around. Before getting into anything new you should always go through the healing process, and fully move past your most recent break-up. During this period you may find yourself wanting to call up an ex boyfriends/girlfriends to fill the void, but instead try to do something’s to make yourself happy and fulfilled- “Alone”. You don’t always need to have someone around to have a good time. Take up a new hobby or interest that you can enjoy. Such as, writing, dancing, artwork, music, etc. Remember: You must first be happy with yourself, and have self love before you can give love to another. XoXo Written by, MizzBlaze aka LuvOnBlast http://www.luvonblast.com/

Loneliness Single

SUDDENLY SINGLE!

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Sometimes in a relationship it’s hard to get through the ruff times. It’s so much easier to give up than to stay and fight! In a perfect world you would like to think that "Love would be enough" but sometimes in certain situations its not. If you have tried everything you could to make your relationship work, I.E. Couples Counseling, Communication Strategies, and it still seems things aren’t changing for the better then maybe its best to move on. Many times people stay in situations that aren’t healthy for them because of various reasons such as, their children, joint property, business investments, but in the end you have to do what’s best for you. If you truly love the one your with, but your no longer "in love" with them don’t force it! Love should be a natural act not a forced one. To have a healthy relationship both parties must be willing to give it 110%! If you need to let go don’t be afraid....Sometimes having love for someone isn’t enough. You also need to have the tools to make the relationship work, and the commitment to see it through! XoXo Written by, MizzBlaze aka LuvOnBlast http://www.luvonblast.com/

Breakups Love

IS LUV ALWAYS ENOUGH?

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 So you decided to give it another shot with your ex? Your somewhat apprehensive, but the love is still there so you said what the heck, Ill try it again! So now what? First we have to evaluate why you broke up in the first place. If it was over infedelity/cheating then this short blog may not be enough, but if you both broke up because of communication issues, insecurity, or something else along those lines then read on....

 

*Communication is KEY in every relationship, and most of the time a lack in communication is the cause of most fights, and arguments. When you lack the ability to talk openly and freely with your partner it will cause a great deal of stress, and misunderstandings. Most people find it easier to go to a friend or family member about a problem with their mate, but why not go directly to the source? Have you ever heard the saying, "Don’t Ask My Neighbor”? If you feel unsure about what to say you need to build a stronger friendship with your partner. The person your with should not only be your lover, but also your best friend. This makes it easier for you to talk to them about situations that are bothering you. If you can’t talk to your partner about problems in your relationship then you have to ask yourself.... Why am I in a relationship with this person?

*If your partner has Insecurity issues it can make the relationship intolerable at times. You can’t go out with your friends or co-workers because your partner is constantly thinking that you’re creeping around on them, or looking for someone new. If your partner has low-self esteem because of weight gain, past history of a cheating partner, or some other reason you have to be understanding of this if you want to be with them. Only time, love, and patience can heal the wounds of insecurity. If your partner has insecurity issues because of a cheating partner from their past, you have to understand that in order for them to fully trust you they must first move on from their pain, and that can take years depending on the person, and situation. If your partner is still in the healing process your second time around, you have to understand and accept this going back into the relationship. Obviously you love them if you are willing to be with them again even though you are aware of this issue. So be ready to work on earning their trust, but beware this is not always an easy task. If your partner is insecure because of weight gain, or a physical change in their body or features, its important that you reassure them on a regular basis how beautiful/handsome you think they are, and assist in building their confidence by going to the gym with them or using other tools to assist in resurrecting their confidence. Do special things occasionally to show them how much you appreciate and love them. Whether it’s a special candle light dinner, hot oil massage, or stroll in the park always take time to show the luv you have for your mate.

Love Second Chances

THE SECOND TIME AROUND

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